One thing that Maria stressed was the need to better understand children’s capabilities.
birth – 3 years Absorbent Mind
1 1/2 – 3 years Language Development
1 1/2 – 4 years Coordination and Muscle Development
Interest in Small Objects
2 – 4 years Refinement of movement
Concern with truth and reality
Aware of order sequence in time and space
2 1/2 – 6 years Sensory refinement
3 – 6 years Susceptibilty to adult influence
3 1/2 – 4 1/2 years Writing
4 – 4 1/2 years Tactile sense
4 1/2 – 5 1/2 years Reading
I would love to hear where your child is and some ideas of how you’re making the best of where your child is right now.
Looking over this list and thinking about where Carter is now and the periods we’ve come through, I definitely saw his language development BOOM from 1 1/2 to 3. At the one year point I wasn’t sure he’d ever say “mama”. I constantly prompted him “Say mama, say mama.” and he would just smile. Around 15 months I couldn’t imagine why he didn’t have something to say. After all, from the first night he came home, he was read to constantly. I flipped out whenever anyone would attempt to sit him in front of a tv. I talked to him ALL the time and still there were no words.
Around 18 months, the light bulbs coming on in his language development were evident every day. It was as if he has stored up every word he had heard in those 18 months and he began to let them flow to the tune of 10-20 new words each day. I started trying to keep a list, but I lost track.
Today, he’s 3 years 2 months. We have hilarious and interesting conversations. Though there are days when the word “Mommy” loses all meaning from the sheer number of times it’s uttered, there’s nothing I love more than communicating with my son.